Q: Hey linda, I love 2 give my bf bjs but he neva wants 2 give me head, says he doesn't like doing it... Shud I stop d bjs completely cos its unfair.

A: He is totally unfair. And clearly his pleasure is more important than yours to him. Your decision. It is easy for me to d=say stop giving him head. But if you actually ENJOY giving him head, then you would also be depriving yourself a pleasure that you enjoy.

Q: Hi Lindox! I want to plan a romantic weekend 4 my new man. What would you suggest I do for him? I already got two sets of lingerie for him. 1 dominatrix outfit and 1 innocent set. What else? Let's also suppose I may "pop the question" haha

A: What question might that be? Enjoy the outfits....but i hope it is not too early in the relationship. Don't scare the poor boy off!

Q: i luv dis guy bt he kips hurtng me, i wanna leave hm bt m scared of bein lonely, whr du i stat?

A: Let me ask you this...If you owned a Rottweiler, but he keeps on biting YOU when you got him to protect you, what do you do? When somebody's duty is to protect you, but he hurts you more than protects you...you have to walk. You deserve better. You need to learn to put YOU first.

Q: Have been dating the same guy that broke my virginity for the past 3 years and couple of Months but the Problem is I've fallen out of * I guess* but I'm afraid of moving on sexually <br />

A: Take it easy on yourself. There really is no hurry. Wait til you find somebody that makes you comfortable enough to want to move on.

Q: Why do some women fart during sex? I'm not talking about pussy farts, I'm talking about the real kind.

A: That means the sex is so good, she forgets about being a lady and forgets about behaving....all muscles just relax and she lets herself go.

Q: He always asks me if i really luv hm. I gt this Q evryday its annoying. He says its hard to blive coz im "nt so convincing" I dnt knw wht to tell him anymo. I go all out to show him i do bt he wnt see it. Cud he b the 1whos nt honest abt hs feelings?

A: I get the feeling HE has the problem. Are YOU convinced of HIS love for you?

Q: Hw cn 1 tel if a relationshp is worth fighting 4?

A: You just know. If you have to ask....it probably isn't.