Q: M havin a big clit,i sometimes hide it in btwn the lips whn naked at gym.There was a time i was considerin cuttin it off bt my bf at the tym discouraged me.i feel it makes my cookie look horrible.is it nt a turn off on men?<br /> Pls say somethin :-(

A: Considering that such a vast percentage of men can't even find the clit with a map, I'd say you are a blessing to most men. Girl, millions of women wish they had a clit that was easier to find. I am sure you have more orgasms than most women. Enjoy your orgasms. Stop being so self conscious about a whole lot of NOTHING.

Q: Yes I think I do have unresolved feelings for my ex..we have established contact and I find myself doubting how happy I realy am with my man..I miss my ex

A: Every time the thought of going back to an ex crosses your mind, think back to the moment you broke up. Why did you break up? What has changed about the reasons for the break up? And can you move on and ignore those reasons for ever, going forward?

Q: He was/is the love of my life.. Its so difficult to let go.. He hurt me real bad! But for sum odd reason, I can't bring myself 2 hate him. Is that weird?

A: You don't have to hate him. Wasting your energy hating somebody doesn't get you anywhere. Just move on. Love yourself enough to know that you deserve better. Keep walking and don't look back.

Q: We've been together for almost a year and are married for 2 months,and my husband is planning an overseas trip for himself to see his ex. *devastated*

A: WHAT? Please tell me you are joking? Please help me understand....what is your question, here? Are you asking me how you should feel about this?

Q: My best guy friend says he likes me ! Told him I don't. His my friend I have a man and even if was single woulnt wanna jeapodize a good frienship he keeps tryin my man is all work lately and my friend knows this . Kanti how do men think?<br /> <br /> <br />

A: Let me start by answering the last question. All men are different. So we all think differently. Having said that, my guess is; he looks at you and your man and he looks at the way you and HE relate and he is convinced that you two would be a better fit than you and your man. Stranger things have happened.

Q: am inlove with ths guy he has got a gf bt he loves me too..what shud i do?

A: And how do you know he loves you? Has he told you so? As things stand, even if he does love you...he loves her more. Otherwise he would be with you, not her.

Q: am inlove with ths guy he has got a gf bt he loves me too..what shud i do?

A: And how do you know he loves you? Has he told you so? As things stand, even if he does love you...he loves her more. Otherwise he would be with you, not her.