Q: Am inlove with a 50 year old man and am 24. We work together and he makes me happy. He was married but it ended years ago. Is it wrong for me to love him or what.

Ok, here's the thing....you can love and date whoever you feel comfortable with IN THEORY. The question becomes; can you actually make the relationship work? Do you (both) have the emotional intelligence to look past the differences? This holds truw whether the difference is racial, cultural, age, religion or whatever. I must say, the fact that you are asking me the question says that it IS an issue for you already. And it says that YOU see it as a problem already. Let me illustrate my point; If he was Muslim and you were christian, would you have asked me the question? Or if he was Anglican and you were Catholic? Am guessing you wouldn't. Because it is a non issue. So, why is this one an issue? I'll tell you why. Because it also bothers you on some level.