Q: My bf n i lv eachotha vry much.we hvn problms.thng is neitha 1 of us wants 2 make da 1st mve 2 fix it.wat 2 do?

Your question makes it very hard to give any advice. 1. You are quite economical with your vowels. 2. It is not clear, from your question what the problems are exactly. I mean...are they fixable? Some differences ARE irreconcilable. That is why there is divorce. Maybe you can't be bothered to fix it because you just don't think it is worth fixing?