Q: his family seems to come 1st.we\\\'ve been dating since Jan.I can\\\'t go to his place when his brothers r there. why is he behaving like a 14yr old at 36?Puzzled

Ok, this is a very old Qooh. So obviously this refers to Jan last year. Ok, my guess is that he was still not ready to have you meeting the family yet. Which is worrying in a relationship that is almost a year old. But everybody does things at their own pace. So, maybe he takes his time before doing the home intro.