Q: we are in a distant r/ship.we brk up cos he gave me no attention nd makes me unhappy always.its a month nw nd he sent mesages 2 me on fb sayin his mind isnt free nd dsnt wnt 2 b blamed 4d brk up.is he feeling guilty of hw he treated me?do i reply his messages?

How can he NOT want to be blamed for the break up? According to what you say, he made you feel unappreciated and unloved. What is he going to do differently? Is this a case of "You never miss your water til it runs dry?" Will he stop appreciating you again once you are back together?