Q: He waits for me to kiss him, if I am not then he asks me to kiss him. Why can't he just throw himself at me then kiss me #really confused girlfriend

That is very strange. He is a man, for heaven's sake. He is supposed to drive the relationship. Occasionally, you should make the first move, but, really....most of the time HE should. Clearly, he doesn't get that women need to feel wanted and desired. Men do to. But women probably 10 times more. Have a chat with him. Tell him how this makes you feel.