Q: My bf introduced me 2 hs mom a while bk recently i found dat he hs anada gf nd he wrote hr name in hs rltnshp status in hs facebuk profile..im confused dnt knw whr i stand.. Wat do u thnk ths means?

A: To be honest with you, i don't think any of the two things mean anything at all. I know mothers who have met HUNDREDS of their son's girlfriends..so don't get THAT twisted. Her being on his profile also doesn't mean much, because all of that CAN be changed with the click of a button. What DOES matter, though, is the fact that you are being two timed and you are asking me what you should think about that. He is DATING another woman and for all intents and purposes, she is sitting there thinking she is his one and only like you. Yet you don't even have a sense of self worth to be UPSET at this? Your self esteem is my biggest worry here. That is what needs to be given attention first. Love yourself enough to say; I deserve better.