Q: We have 7 yrs diference between us, he says he loves me, and I see it in his eys but I need confirmation, as I ahve my insecurities about age, how do I confirm that he really loves me, and that I am the one, we have been dating for 6 smooth months

For as long as your age difference remains an issue for you, your relationship will NEVER work. You clearly have a problem looking past the age difference. And to make the relationship work, you would need to not even know that the age gap exists until somebody points it out. Until then, you guys are doomed. Seriously.