We Give Men AIDS....my take...

Friends, i am sure you have all heard about or seen the e-mail that is doing the rounds about this alleged AIDS club of women who are intentionally spreading the HIvirus.

For those who haven't, this is it, below........

My name is Thabiso Mokgosi and i have recently come into contact with a sophisticated group of beautiful girls spreading the HI virus.

I met (Mercedes K Madube) via the promotional agency we both worked for. We had been flirting for a year and on the last minute, she confessed her intention was to infect me with the HI virus, but somehow she couldn’t go thru with it.

Subsequently after that I was approached by another beautiful girl (Wilhemina bodiba) belonging to this group. This all happened within 3 days of knowing each other.

This group seems to know my where abouts, they keep messaging me of where I am and how long I have been there.

This group recently contacted my girlfriend with the intention of creating a rift between us. They got hold of her via a social network and forwarded her messages.

This group consists of young beautiful girls; they meet on Mondays to discuss stats and targets. This is dangerous and I feel people should be made aware of such groups, because they do exist.

Below is a dialogue between myself and Mercedes K Madube via Facebook.

December 3

Thabiso Tubs Mokgosi

Okay…I didn’t know how you felt about me…till now…things between us have been easy going & all of a sudden you want me to spill my life story on a social network. I think that’s being a bit unreasonable…I, will tell you in due course. yeah…I’m in to you…that’s no secret…I have never asked you bout ur personal life…coz I wouldn’t want to complicate it. Maybe you have expectations of me that I’m not aware of. so we are not friends now? What’s going on…?

December 3

Mercedes K Mogasi

i guess i am bn unreasonable.So u into me but we friends?wat dus dat mean?da gal wit u on ur facebook pics,is dat ur gal?da one?do u love her?if so,how is it possible dat u into me?

December 3

Mercedes K Mogasi

silence???

December 3

Thabiso Tubs Mokgosi

Ohh…so that is what this is all about…pics on my Facebook profile…yeah I have been in on an of relationship with this girl…its on off & those pics are coming off…so how do you feel bout me???

December 3

Mercedes K Mogasi

Im crazy abt u#shy#so u don love her anymore?u guys r over?

slow down,i got a confession to make,whereva u r ryt now,pls sit down…….

my boo…#tearing up#…I’m HIV+,yes HIV positive,bn a year now,my boyfriend infected me.Yes,im dying & yes my aim till lyk a minute ago,was to hook up wit u,seduce u so u’d sleep wit me,i wanted to infect u.I hate good lookin guys dat much.I’m not da only one,des a group of us dat does dis,12 of us r frnds wit u on facebook,some on twitter,its a race,we flirt & charm good looking guys & whoeva gets de first,plants da virus,we all got it frm guys,hot guys.Its a very sick game i knw.A group of bitter women spreading HIV through social networks.I couldn’t go thru it wit u for sum reason,u so sweet#teary#i jus had to confess.I’m sorry boo

December 3

Thabiso Tubs Mokgosi

Now that’s something I didn’t know…I thot we were just fooling around yeah…

Ohh…shit that’s hectic hey…let me pass by & we will talk bout it…im really so hear that…friend to friend…I’m sad to hear that…I mean that…u so strong thou…

December 3

Mercedes K Mogasi

No No,wen i say craze abt u,i mean it literally coz i wantd to infect u wit AIDS.yeah,fooling around wit ur lyf,myn’s over!I hate wat i’m doing but its my way of dealing wit da anger,makes me feel better.My boyfriend cheated on me coz wat i didn knw wudn hurt me,but i still got hurt,in da worst way possible.

December 3

Thabiso Tubs Mokgosi

Yo!!! I’m flabbergasted…

December 3

Mercedes K Mogasi

no tubs,u don’t get it,i’m in halfway gardens coz i’m takin care of him,cahngin his dypers & shit#literally#hes dying#da man dat i love is dying.I don wana be ur friend,i cant be,i got holda u coz i wantd to make u pay for anada man’s mistakes. Anada woman did dis to me & my baby,i don wana b da reason ur woman cries.

December 3

Mercedes K Mogasi

Still wana hook up now?Still wana delete ur boo’s fotos now?U guys r such easy bastards,willin to throw out da real deal for a fling,always!!!Foolin around!????dats how i got in dis position in da first place.He was jus bored & desperate,he slept wit one gal,jus one,not many,she didn knw she was positive,he usd protection,da condom burst,for da first tym in 3yrs he was jus foolin around,he neva intended to hurt me.We were also on & off,i guess i grew dull & boring,i struggle to make ends meet & compared to whats out de,i cudnt offer him much if @ all.Serves me ryt for being so arrogant thinkin i’m da hottest thing eva

was nothin

December 3

Thabiso Tubs Mokgosi

Thank you for not going thru with your plan to infect me…that I’ll always be internally grateful to you for…

December 3

Mercedes K Mogasi

My boo….lol…sounds rong evn sayin dat coz dats wat u cald ur galfrnd on dose fotos,jus do me a favour,find ur galfrnd,whereva she myt b ryt now,find her,if she’s far,call her & let her knw how much u love her,how much she means to u.I can tell u still luv her by how desperate u r for us to hook up,u think dat’ll get her outa ur system,well it won’t,i’m a woman,i knw.U love her, for u to evn proclaim it on a social network,it takes a real man to admit his feelings to da world abt a woman lyk dat,she means da world to u.U guys r jus probably havin problems ryt now,breakin up,makin up,maybe she jus talks too much,da small annoyin things,i don knw.All i knw is wateva da challenges u guys face,wateva u did or she did,u can forgive each otha,she still hasn made u sick,nothin’s worse dan dat.Stress,frustrations,space,financial problms,insecurities r a normal part of any relationship,dey can be fixed.Two ppl who luv each otha can talk & get thru dat,not easily,but can be done.I still wish my man & i were still havn dose financial problems etc. @ da end of da day we cud chat & iron dem out,but AIDS,we cant change da fact dat we dying,can we?

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December 3

Thabiso Tubs Mokgosi

That’s hectic…hectic beyond words…I still can’t believe this…yeah…its reeling I’m my head…but it hasn’t sunk in…I’m speechless right now…

December 3

Mercedes K Mogasi

Don thank me,be careful& warn others,its not jus me but a group of us,each one of us has many profiles,we got guys too,so warn ladies as well.All i’m sayin is,don b a typical man,don go lukin for da easy way out wen da goin gets tough in a relationship esp one dat u stood against all odds to build,a relationship is work,work on it,b patient,love her & don hold back.Wateva it is, it can be fixed.All i’m sayin is,appreciate wat u hav,she’s very beautiful,despite her faults,im sure she takes very gud care of u as dey say,behind evr good lookin powerful man,is a wise beautiful woman.U guys don have AIDS,VALUE DAT!!!u don knw wat its lyk,i wish i had ur problems coz dey can b fixed.U love her my boo,u wudn put her on facebook or b wit her if u didnt.U wudn b

who u r or whe u r today if she hadn’t supported & believed in u,don knw,im jus sayin.Its a sat,take her out for ice cream,a movie,a walk in da park,wateva,u don hav dypers to change lyk i do.hug her tight close to ur chest,feel her heartbeat,love her,evn if she’s rong,ego asyd,go down on ur knees & say sorry.Call her,listen

to her,make deep passionate love to her

,anythin to make things ryt my friend,jus do it.Foolin around is not a solution,cud liv u scarred for lyf or even dead.Its hard to find a genuine partner des days so wen u have it,hold on tight &

cherish it.90 percent of young ppl r positive#real talk#if ur partner isn’t,thank dem.Evn my parents r positive,in marriage,dats y i go to botswana so much!Be a man who makes a difference!#sigh# appreciate w

December 3

Thabiso Tubs Mokgosi

#Appreciated…there’s so much to live for…so hold on to that yeah…

December 4

Mercedes K Mogasi

wats gud wit u?

December 4

Thabiso Tubs Mokgosi

I’m all good, u…what’s good with you?

December 5

Mercedes K Mogasi

hey u…im gud jus tired.I jus thot i shud warn u,i don knw y im doin dis but im gonna do it anyway.Pls,Pls stay away frm a gal by da name Vel,she’s one of us,she was here gloatin dat she contacted u & u agreed to meet her,is it true?If so,pls don’t,she’s one of da top gals in our group,she has no remorse.she told me dat u startin to trust & confide in her abt u & ur galfriend,somethin abt yol bn in an on off relationship,abt u not wanting to be in a committed relationship,abt u splittin end of Dec,same thing u told me basically.She’s very excited by da fact dat u told her abt me & how i wanted to give u Aids,its was da biggest joke in our group today.We all get together on Mondays,dats wen we have our ‘meetings’ & do stats. Vel didnt only let her boyfriend go,she infected him,he dusn knw yet.Worse part,her sister knws wat she dus & helps her catch her prey,works for her coz it luks convincing.Da dude who passed on her #,oh,he’s also one of us.We’re everywhere.Try not to open up & confide in ppl u don knw,speak to ur galfrnd man coz dats a common strategy we use to get u to trust & b comfortable so watch out,sum guys we get em drunk & rape em#true story#Ur in great danger,ur boo is too, so pls watch ur back.Maybe i shud give u a list of my group.#later

December 5

Thabiso Tubs Mokgosi

Wow!!! I’m eternally grateful. Thank u…from.the bottom of my heart…#GodBlessU

December 5

Thabiso Tubs Mokgosi

Pls do…hook me up with that list…

December 10

Mercedes K Mogasi

hey,pls watch out for Vel & company @da concert tonyt,u posted on twitter remember?dey were de lasnyt as well,she says she cald & sent u an sms & u ignored her,sumthin abt waitin for her siblings @da concert,she jus wantd to make sure u not de.She’s wit sum new gal, many of dem,all pretty gals,its cald training.Dey spike drinks,even prick if possible so pls b careful of gals cumin too close.Afta parties r worse hey,im gonna b de too.I gotta work u knw. Have fun jus b careful.

December 10

Mercedes K Mogasi

by da way Vel or one of da gals planning to tell u sum story abt car breakin down so dey can sleep @ ur place.da aim is to get a chance to liv underwear & used condoms in ur pocket,car or hous to break u up wit ur boo.Dis is evil & goes deep.To be honest,ur galfriend’s da only woman u safe wit & can trust ryt now,not even ur mom,one of our gals goes to church wit her & believe me,ppl @ da church knw ur dillemma.Be careful!

Sunday

Thabiso Tubs Mokgosi

Thank you Mercy…I have been thinking alot bout u. I’m keeping you & your family in my prayers. Everything is going to be alright…u best believe that!!!

Sunday

Mercedes K Mogasi

don’t pray for me,pray for yoself,u da one whos lyf is in danger,i don need ur sympathy.wat i do is a choice & i don feel bad abt it @ all.Nothing’s ever gonna b alright Tubs,get dat through ur head.There’s no turning back where i am,jus like prostitution & dis is not somethin u&i will chat abt when we meet coz my convos with u will definately b recorded,so avoid me when we do.I jus put up a front,look pretty & move along. @ da end of da day,like everyone else,i gotta meet my targets!

Sunday

Mercedes K Mogasi

besides,ppl who use da phrase ‘ill pray for u,usually don even pray for themselves until something’s wrong,so i don believe in it.sorry

19 hours ago

Mercedes K Mogasi

ur in virgin active vodaworld now ryt?and u bn goin de for a week now ryt?watch out,u got fans,dey more dan jus fans,some of our trainees r workin out de dis month,trust me deyr gud,very smart,pretty gals too#true story#some will open up to u abt their personal problems,watch out.Id back off from chicks for sumtym if i were u.

18 hours ago

Thabiso Tubs Mokgosi

Cool…thanks

18 hours ago

Mercedes K Mogasi

by da way,hope u told ur boo da truth abt us,she deserves to knw da truth.Vel saw our charts & wants to forward em to her,how u & i were flurtin,how desperate u were to speak & meet wit me dat sat,how u cald her sum on & off gal dat u jus bn datin for a little while,how u wanted to delete her pictures,how u wantd to offload to me dat sat.All dis myt break u up.Im scared coz Vel’s crazy,has no remorse.Pls confess to ur boo if u havn’t already,pls.If u two trully luv each otha u’ll find a way past dis okay…..

18 hours ago

Thabiso Tubs Mokgosi

Thanks for the warning…will be sure to be on the look out…#RealTalk

18 hours ago

Mercedes K Mogasi

think of it dis way,its december,wats da one thing dat she wants da most?make it happen,even if its beyond ur powers,try ur best to make it happen for her,it’ll show dat u luv her,well,dats if u do….

10 hours ago

Mercedes K Mogasi

My boyfriend just passed away,lyk an hour ago#heart broken#he was in so much tubs,im still waiting for da mortuary ppl to get here#going crazy#

Da list i promised u: Myself-mercy madube(bf infected me)whilleminah boddiba(bf)nezz khehle(rape)lerato mokebe(bf)lebo khambule(bf)horatia sifeni(bf)nomonde bacela(raped by bf’s friend)refilwe metsing(bf)babs finiza(bf)lethu(rape)mashadi lesia(bf)samola selemela(bf)keneiloemolapo(bf)thuli sokhela(bf)kekelletso motasie(rape by dad)julymaluleka(rape)barby afrique(bf)amanda chermon(bf)mantsa ramaboya(bf)sibongile meya(bf)pabi mayemo(rape)

10 hours ago

Mercedes K Mogasi

that’s not all,dose r just da ones i recall from da top of my head,my closest friends.Is it possible for us to meet today,i need to talk to someone rational,im going out of my mind,please.I’ll hook u up with da rest of da list plus da guys.Please let me know before one,no strings,u can even come with ur galfriend if u lyK.By da way im sorry for what Vel did to u guys,i tried to stop her,i really did,but she’d already searched for her & sent her da messages,i hope u had told her da truth though.Ur a gud guy.I knw u had.She will forgive u in tym.U guys love each other,fight against this evil.Please come & see me,des something very important i want u to c.

10 hours ago

Mercedes K Mogasi

i want to show u how i knw everything that i knw & how u can do da same,for ur safety.

6 hours ago

Mercedes K Mogasi

Do u knw where Casablanca is?its a complex in Halfway gardens,dats where im @,please come to Casablanca @ two today,let me knw when u @ da gate.I don’t wanna scare u in fact i was too afraid to say but i have to tell u that apparently u made our stats this week,i don’t know how,but yes u have.Did anything weird happen over the weekend?Don’t be scared just yet,go for a test,convince her to get tested too,go back again after 3months,but please please come & see me today.its important!

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Now...my take (as always, i will get straight to the point and keep it brief)....I know it is very easy for one to stand there and be shocked at the actions of these young ladies. Yes, what they are doing is deplorable and totally inexcusable. But, really, any man who falls "victim" to them has nobody to blame but themselves. 

In this day and age, who the hell has sex without a condom? Who the hell has sex without a condom with a woman they have not gone tested with? Who the hell has sex without a condom with a woman they have just met? Lastly, and most importantly...if you are going to have multiple partners, as this guy clearly does, then, hell, bro, you lost your right to call yourself a "victim". You are a volunteer. 

The fact that these women are KNOWINGLY infecting you with the virus does not change facts at all. Would you feel better if you were infected by somebody who was not malicious, but just reckless and irresponsible, like you?

I am the last person to ever suggest that you stick to one partner. That is a losing battle. But, dammit, put a sock on that pickle.